A letter to ...
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‘The hardest part is the loneliness. It falls on me to try to educate our children and manage our dwindling finances’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘I take comfort in the knowledge that, even though you are not here, your work continues to make children happy’
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‘You were thrilled by my first expensive gift and your joy made me happy’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘Your children are very kind to my child – I think they could teach you a thing or two’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘I always had a feeling it could be you, but I thought I was being paranoid’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘I’m finally above reminding or begging you for closeness’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘You were moved to a home for difficult girls. I still wonder if I should have suggested you live with us’: the letter you always wanted to write
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By the time you read this, I will have died peacefully under your care with my daughter at my side
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‘I don’t blame you, but I want you to understand how your actions affected me’: the letter you always wanted to write
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I was spending 12 hours a day trying to feed my son. You were convinced the solution was more time and effort from me
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‘Hearing about the struggles you faced, I wanted to give more – but it was never enough’: the letter you always wanted to write
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Mum, you’re irreplaceable – but the other women in my life are doing a pretty good job: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘A single layer of brick was our only protection from months of nightly screaming’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘The sadness of leaving the hospital empty-handed is indescribable’: the letter you always wanted to write
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You say little, but your presence is immense. You reinforce the essential simplicities of life
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‘On our walks together, you gave me the freedom to think clearly’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘You will live for ever with the memory of your dad dying just before you turned 11’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘I wonder now whether you secretly resented me’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘When she shrieked, you didn’t look at me as if I was failing as a mother; instead I saw empathy in your eyes’: the letter you always wanted to write
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‘These stories don’t show the the child who is non-verbal, who screams and growls for hours on end and attacks his or her parents on a daily basis’: the letter you always wanted to write